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The Stepmom's Guide to 
Simplifying Your Life

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Foreword

Chapter 1   Choose Simplicity

Against all odds • Not me! • What does it mean to choose simplicity? • Relinquishing control • What’s yours and what’s not • Blessed choices

Chapter 2   Simplify Your Expectations

Give up unrealistic expectations • Unrealistic Expectation #1: I’ll know how to be a good stepmom because I already am a good mom • Unrealistic Expectation #2: This marriage will be easier than the one(s) before it • Unrealistic Expectation #3: My family will not take as long to "blend" as other stepfamilies • Meeting others’ expectations • Savor the small victories

Chapter 3   Simplify Your Obligations, Set Your Goals

Understanding your obligations • Different kinds of obligations • Establishing your goals • What do you want? • Long-term and short-term goals • Does this choice get you closer to your goal? • The flip side • Choosing your priorities • When priorities conflict • Second (and third) chances • Relishing clarity, maintaining focus

Chapter 4   Simplify Your Relationships  (read an excerpt)

Look back, but just once • The power of perspective • The power of restraint • The power of abundance • Money • Time • The power of forgiveness • Forgiveness for others • Forgiveness for yourself • A surprising strength

Chapter 5   Simplify Your Communication

Causes and effects of poor communication • Withdrawal • Mindreading • Your discoveries • Your responsibilities • Why it matters • The truths about you • Learning how • Where it leads

Chapter 6   Simplify Your Authority

What is authority? • A stepmom’s authority • The value of rules • Where to start • Informing the masses • Toward the goal of simplified authority • The best benefit

Chapter 7   Simplify Your Future

Become a collector • Protect your marriage • Follow your heart • The unexpected rewards

Afterword

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